Financial problems often becomes a source of conflict. This often led to the destruction of relationships, including marital relationship. The cause is not only because of differences in income (higher-income wives), or lifestyle of the peg than the pole. Pair lied about the use of money into a dangerous form of infidelity.
According to a survey from Harris Interactive, one of three people have been duped of their partner about money. While one in four people said that their partner has been hiding financial information from them. Financial infidelity like these that have the potential to destroy the relationship, even interfere with couples sexual adventures.
So as not to get caught up in this unpleasant situation, you should begin to honestly and openly, how:
Financial independence need to be addressed from the outset. Express to your partner that you need to have a financially independent life. Separate special savings account for you. You can do financial planning for yourself. For example, for pension funds, investment, or the other, with your income.
"You have to have their own money and financial independence. Financial condition of women tend to be vulnerable especially if left to their husbands, because of death or divorce. You need to honestly and openly to your partner that you need the money in personal accounts. But make sure you continue to contribute to the finances together and stay responsible for filling the joint account, "said Weil.
Create a financial settlement with the couple. Rules about the money needs to be designed for individual or family financial rescue. You and your partner need to agree on spending limits. For example, you and your spouse are prohibited from unilaterally spend money with certain values of the joint account. In principle, always discuss or consult with your partner's needs and expenditure. Create also an agreement to give time to pamper yourself once a week. Give me a budget for time by mutual agreement.
Write down all the things about finance. Be sure to record all income and personal spending as well as with the couple. This method needs to be done to avoid disputes. Not mean not believing in the pair. But with the financial records are arranged neatly, you and your partner can control the spending for the sake of a more steady financial condition
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